Mastering the Art of Physical Contact on Dates

Yesterday, a friend approached the author with a question that triggered deep reflection. It made the author realize that it has been a long time since sharing techniques on how to effectively initiate physical contact during dates.

Common Concerns No wonder this friend mentioned feeling awkward about not knowing where to place his hands during dates—it’s quite a naive mistake! Some might ask, “Doesn’t physical contact repel women, causing them to feel disgusted?” Certainly, hasty physical interactions not only trigger a woman’s self-defense mechanism but might also label you as a sleazy man.

The Importance of Physical Contact However, physical contact is an essential step in progressing a relationship. It increases the sense of intimacy between you two. Intimacy is about making a woman feel close and trusted in your relationship, enjoying physical closeness with you. Gradually, this can naturally lead to holding hands, hugging, kissing, and sharing personal spaces.

How to Approach Physical Contact on Dates So today, the author will share how to appropriately and respectfully touch her on dates without triggering any adverse reactions. Imagine if a girl consoles you when you’re upset, encourages you, and is willing to be there for you without putting too much pressure. Wouldn’t you find it hard not to fall for her? Likewise, this is why women are charmed by gentlemen.

Gentlemanly Physical Contact Let’s share some gentleman-like physical contact techniques:

1. When entering a restaurant, help her with her coat.
2. Assist her in positioning herself when she wants to take a photo.
3. When opening the car door for her, gently support her by the hand.
4. If she’s wearing a skirt and climbing stairs, conscientiously walk ahead of her.
5. When walking with her, always walk on the side facing traffic. … These can be seen as small, intimate gestures of affection. For example:
6. When joking, gently pat her head (be careful not to mess up her hairstyle).
7. When she makes a cute face, affectionately stroke her nose.
8. When having a fun conversation, lightly pinch her cheek (be gentle to avoid leaving a mark).
9. When crossing the street and the light is about to change, quickly grasp her hand to cross safely (the key here is to pretend to forget you’re still holding her hand after crossing. If she doesn’t pull away, you can keep holding on; if she withdraws, then step back to a safe distance). … There is much more to discuss about physical contact, including playful and romantic styles.